Remembering Vietnam Veterans - In Memory Day

In Memory Event for Vietnam Veterans

In Memory Plaque for Vietnam Veterans - Copyright Country Sunshine

Over 58,000 men and women who served in the Vietnam War, died there.  Their names are inscribed on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall in Washington, DC.

However, more of our military died after they returned home from the war.  With both physical and psychological wounds, they suffered for some time before eventually passing on.

The names of this latter group of service men & women are not eligible for placement on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall, although their death resulted from their service.  Yet they are still honored at the National Mall in Washington, DC with the "In Memory Plaque", and an event known as "In Memory Day". 

All photos copyright Country Sunshine

Flag Day at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall

Washington, DC

In Memory Event - View of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall - copyright Country Sunshine

In Memory Day is held each June on Flag Day, in the National Mall in Washington, D.C.  It is sponsored by the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund, who are the founders of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall. 

Aptly held in view of the "Wall", the ceremony is attended by the family and friends of those service people who died as a result of their service.  In 2012, over 600 people attended the In Memory Day event!

The Flags

Honor Guard with Flags at In Memory Day 2012 - Copyright Country Sunshine

At the beginning of the ceremony, the Honor Guard brings in the colors.  There are flags for every branch of the service, plus the United States flags.  The Star-Spangled Banner is sung, and the Pledge of Allegiance recited.

While you have heard both of these many times, it is quite moving to experience them in this setting.  Many war veterans are in the audience, and it brings tears to your eyes to see how patriotic they really are.

Remarks

After the Retiring of the Colors by the Armed Forces Color Guard, several speaker provide remarks about the honorees.  While they may be political figures, they leave their politics behind while they speak. 

In 2012, the speakers were:

  • Senator Joe Lieberman
  • Delegate Timothy Hugo
  • Joyce Wessel Raezer

Name Reading of Past Participants

Each year since 1998, names of the veterans who have lost their lives as a result of their service in Vietnam are added to the In Memory Honor Roll.  Yet, this is not the only time their names are mentioned. 

After the speakers have given their remarks, family members and friends of the veterans who were added in previous years are invited to the podium once again.  Spouses, family members and friends of the fallen state the name and service of their loved ones. 

You can hear in the shakiness of their voices that they still grieve for their loved ones.  Yet, you feel in your heart the love and the pride they have for those heroes who are gone.

In Memory Honor Roll Call

Waiting to pay tribute to fallen soldiers

After the Benediction, the song Unsung Heroes by Chuck Price is played.  In past years, Price played the song live.  However, in 2012 he was unable to attend, so the song was pre-recorded.

As the song continues, family & friends of the present year are invited to stand behind the tributes of their loved ones.  It is a solemn moment; both tragic and wonderful at the same time.  I have never felt so proud and so sad at the same time.

As the music stops, the names begin to be read.  Starting with the veteran who lost his life the longest time ago, family members state their loved one's name, relationship and military branch.  By the time everyone's voice is heard, you will find tears are streaming down your cheeks.  There is no way that you cannot be moved by this ceremony.

Taps & Tributes

Leaving tributes at the Vietnam Veterans Memorial in Washington, DC

After the final name is read, Taps is performed by the United States Marine Band. Such a mournful sound!

The participants retrieve their loved one's tributes, and head to The Wall - the Vietnam Veterans Memorial.  Leaving their memories along with their mementos, saying one more good-bye.

In Memory Day 2012

It is difficult to describe the emotions you will experience at the In Memory Day event.  Watch this short video and see if it doesn't bring a tear to your eye.

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This article is copyright Country Sunshine, who writes about Veterans topics, relationships, country living, food & recipes, and book reviews. Visit all of my articles on Zujava and Squidoo.

Do You Know Someone Who Died As A Result of The Vietnam War?

It is my hope that you did not know anyone personally that should be remembered at the In Memory Day Event.  However, if you do, I'd like to hear their story.

If you have any comments you'd like to make about In Memory Day, or the other Vietnam Veterans Memorials, please post them here.

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Anonymous on said:
My husband just died from cholangiocarcinoma, a cancer that is caused by a parasite he got while in service in Vietnam. I will be working on getting his disability determination even though the has already passed. We know this is service-connected. Please keep me on any list that provides updates, information, notifications. Thank you! Nancy Campbell
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Anonymous on said:
My husband Lynn "Sparky" Michael Holm Died October 31,2011 as a result of Cholangiocarcinoma , most likely from a parasite he got while in S.E. Asia during his tours during the Vietnam war 1970-74 his claim is still in the system , he died before it could be reviewed. He was just 58 years old when diagnosed and had turned 59 a month later , far too young for this rare cancer to have been "naturally" occurring. Too many of our servicemen are being misdiagnosed .Caused by a parasite from the fish and some shellfish it takes 30 to 40 years to become cancer with little or no symptoms until near death from beginning to end. American Cancer Society and World Health Organization recognizes it , and so far it is a case by case thing whether a claim is accepted or denied ! My husband believed wholeharted that he picked it up while on R&R in Thailand.
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I don't, but my heart goes out to those who have.

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